In our Lower Story lives, it can seem like everyone else is having all the fun. Everyone else can do whatever they want to, but I am stuck with these "rules" from God that keep me from having any fun. But God's Upper Story never changes, nor is it influenced by what we want. He may allow us to have what we want, even if it violates his standards for enjoying life with him. But ultimately he is building a perfect community.
True wisdom leads us to depend on God and humbly trust that he knows what is best for us.